Which is better: passion or self-discipline? I’ll argue that self-discipline is the better fuel.
I received an immediate comment from Hanif Rehman on Facebook to this blog, and I think he makes an extremely valid point. Here’s what he said. I believe it’s true.
“You’ll need passion or very strong desire to start though…self discipline then later kicks in.” ~Hanif Rehman
Like any emotional state, passion waxes and wanes. Sometimes you’re highly motivated. Sometimes you aren’t. Passion has its peaks and valleys, so if you base your actions on your level of passion, your results will depend on your emotions. Feeling passionate? Great actions, great results. Feeling dispassionate? Weak actions, mediocre results.
Using passion as your only fuel will no more assure you of success than being in love will ensure a successful long-term relationship.
Self-discipline is far more important than passion, especially in business. In fact, if you develop the quality of self-discipline to a high degree, it will put passion to shame.
“The undisciplined are slaves to moods, appetites and passions.” ~Stephen Covey
Self-discipline allows you take action and therefore get results no matter what your emotional state. Where passion is erratic, self-discipline provides steadiness and stability.
And because your emotions aren’t in the way, your decisions are more likely to succeed because they’ll be made from a state of disciplined intellect rather than from emotional peaks and valleys.
Which would you bet on if your life depended on it?
If you were to undergo open heart surgery, would you want a disciplined, dispassionate surgeon or an undisciplined, passionate one?
If you were being tried for murder, would you want a disciplined, dispassionate defense team or a an undisciplined, passionate one?
If you were flying in the Space Shuttle, would you want the ground controllers to be disciplined and dispassionate or undisciplined and passionate?
Passion is great, but it’s icing. It needs self-discipline to back it up.
Self-discipline is quieter though. Passion gets more attention these days because it makes more noise.
- How to build Self-Discipline (madebyderrick.wordpress.com)
- Mastering the Art of Self Discipline (paulciacci.wordpress.com)